Work with me

From performance to presence.

Coaching for men whose success is real, and who are no longer sure who achieved it. You feel life at a higher resolution than most. Unchannelled, that depth turns into overwhelm and the quiet sense of not living up to yourself. Felt and held, it becomes the clearest leadership in the room.

A few places a year. Write to me with one word and I'll tell you when the next one opens.

Who this is for

That skill built your success. It also buried the one who built it.

Long before the career, there was a boy who felt everything. He learned to read the room instead of holding it. I know the move because I made it for years — while the business scaled to seven figures, the nervous system underneath had already given way, and the burnout, when it came, wasn't a surprise. The longer version is in About.

From the outside, it works for you too. The company, the family, the income. People rely on you, and you deliver. And something doesn't hold. You may even have become good at the inner work, which is the most elegant mask of all.

That boy is still there. I work with the man who can hold him: take back his joy and his freedom, and mature into an integrated man.

Not the man who has arrived. The man who is walking. The direction is clear: he turns his wounds into wisdom and his shadows into strengths. He owns his patterns instead of acting them out. He lives from courage and truth, and expresses his gifts in ways that elevate his life and the lives around him.

How I work

I don't believe you.

It is the most respectful thing I know how to say.

I listen for one thing: the moment it isn't you talking. You won't hear it. I will. I call it intuition.

I won't say it right away. I ask where that sentence comes from. What part of you is that? What does that belief cost you? We explore around. And when trust is there, I say it.

It is the most respectful thing I know how to say. I don't believe the performance because I believe the one underneath.

The rest is how I hold the room. Curiosity, peeling the onion. Every voice in you gets heard, including the ones you would rather not invite. Every situation has a wisdom aspect, even the one you are ashamed of. And lightness: this work is serious, and it doesn't need to be heavy. The yamas and the niyamas are the ground I stand on. Pure coaching is the craft.

The territory

What we might go through.

I can't give you a program. I don't know yet what wants to happen. What I know is how it moves: we go around, and then we come back. These are the places we might go around.

Where you are speaking from

Every sentence comes from somewhere. A level on the map of consciousness. One of the four archetypes of men, or the boy version of it. A belief so old it sounds like a fact: I have no hope, I am powerless, I am worthless. We read your Gene Keys, Human Design and Enneagram as one map. Not to label you. To locate the pattern that keeps you performing. Then we turn the coin, because every shadow is sitting on a gift.

Out of the head

The mind tells a good story. The body doesn't. We move to the other channels: sensation, emotion, the world around you, a sound, the light, an object in the room. Somatic intelligence, contemplative science, and what is heard in stillness. We build the half second between the trigger and the action. We look at how you meet what comes: staying, withdrawing, going toward, avoiding. Earth, water, fire, air. Each one is a strength or a hiding place.

Letting go

This is the bottom of the U. Downloading stops and something else becomes present. Three voices guard the door: judgement, cynicism, fear. The questions are simple. Is this truth, or belief? What is incomplete? What can you acknowledge? What can you let go: being right, a plan, an assumption, a habit? What can you decide? The art of letting go is mostly the end of the fight against what is.

Acting from there

From idea to creation, up the ladder of power. From reactive to creative leadership. Not what you should do. What wants to happen. The vision comes last, and it changes nature. It is no longer how you become someone. You are at peace, creation flows out, and it goes towards something that has nothing to prove.

Your wife notices. Your team notices. You notice.

The offers

Three ways to work with me.

A few places a year. Write to me with one word and I'll tell you when the next one opens.

One session a month · two hours, in person

L'Ancre

The fixed point.

One place in your month where nothing you perform is believed, and nothing underneath is judged. You are seen without filters, so the resistance can dissolve. For the man who wants to recalibrate regularly, before the drift becomes a direction.

Le Cap, plus a seat in The Inner Circle

Le Cercle

Le Cap, plus the friction of peers.

Everything in Le Cap, and a seat in The Inner Circle: a small community of atypical entrepreneurs who hold each other to the same standard. We meet once a month. Fifteen men at most. I hold the space; I am not the expert on stage.

One man who doesn't believe your performance is a lot. A circle of them is something else. For the man ready to work for something larger than himself.

What I stand on

Three things I won't negotiate.

i.

Take full responsibility for your life.

You have influence in everything that happens to you. Never hand back your ability to choose.

ii.

Dedicate yourself to something meaningful.

Not to become someone. Peace first. Then creation flows out, towards a vision with nothing to prove.

iii.

Be grateful regardless.

The only certainty is uncertainty. Everything I have built can be gone tomorrow. There is still something to look forward to.

In their words

What clients and colleagues say.

4.9 / 5 across 20 reviews on Google, LinkedIn and Facebook

I struggled to take action and was stuck in overthinking. Stepping back and confronting my ideas without filters gave me the clarity and confidence I needed. I discovered what truly excites me, broke through barriers, and gained the courage to start my own business.

Nicolas Braham

I felt so much self-love, energy, and peace. Pierre-Boris provided clarity of thought on how to approach my vision, where all forces are aligned in one direction to help people. I have had many coaches and mentors in my 20-year entrepreneurial journey, but I have never met someone like him.

Sumit Sharma

Pierre-Boris' coaching style is human and authentic, infused with spirituality while staying pragmatic and aligned with my professional and personal ambitions. His guidance helped me explore new, sensitive inner paths and gave me the confidence and tools to make empowering decisions.

Vincent Tryuens

I needed a mature and experienced coach. That same year, I launched my first company, with sales doubling every year. By far, the best thing you've done for me is to open my mind and really know what I want in my different areas of life.

Lionel

Pierre's insightful questions made me reflect deeply, leading to a significant mindset shift. He has a profound understanding of body and energy, which helped release my anxiety and tension. After just one session, I felt a notable release of tension and gained clarity on my next steps.

Heater Appert

The work touched something very deep and vulnerable in me. You helped me let go of the control that was preventing me from expressing my full authenticity. Thank you for the quality of your presence and the emotional intelligence with which you help me make my way inside myself.

Agnes Gatt

Now I have a clear vision. I'm taking action, and that's a huge change. Pierre-Boris helped me overcome my fears and integrate profound teachings into my personal growth journey.

Natalie de Beul

Your compassionate and balanced approach stood out, instantly gaining my trust. Your genuine generosity, deep listening, and ability to cut through the mental noise to reach the heart of my issues made all the difference.

Grégory

From our first conversation, I felt that you understood me and that, with your help, I would be able to embrace my true self. Your guidance has helped me gain confidence and a sense of legitimacy.

Lora Schmidt

J'ai été accompagné par Pierre-Boris pendant un an. Le travail a été bien plus profond que prévu : confiance en moi, sentiment de valeur, rapport à l'argent, croyances ancrées. Il y a un an, je n'aurais pas osé rêver être qui je suis aujourd'hui.

Thomas Ducarme · 2026

You have been a catalyst in my life, helping me shed layers of suffering and embrace my true self. I've learned to accept both shadows and gifts, live authentically, and let go of the need for control and recognition.

A client · name withheld

Through challenges with management and interpersonal relationships, I discovered that nothing is permanent or unchangeable. This shift in approach has consistently led to positive outcomes, allowing my team and me to achieve our goals with better support and collaboration.

Christine

Now I radiate an energy that allows me to manifest what I truly desire.

Roald Sieberath
Questions people ask

Before you write.

What happens when I write to you?

I answer myself, within a few days. If a place is open, or about to be, we speak once, without fee and without a pitch, and we both decide. If nothing is open, I tell you when it will be. Either way you get a real answer, not a sequence.

Why one word?

Ancre, Cap or Cercle tells me which door you are standing at, and it is the first act of choosing. If you don't know yet, write "Other" and say so. That is a fine place to start.

Can I afford it?

The honest answer is that the investment reflects the depth of the work, and that we discuss it openly in the first conversation, once we both know what we'd be working on. If the timing isn't right, that's fine. The path will still be here.

I'm not sure I have the energy for this.

That is usually the point. A great deal of energy is lost to overthinking and misalignment. This work reconnects you with where your energy actually comes from.

I'm in therapy. How is coaching different?

Therapy heals; coaching creates. Some people need one, some the other, many both. I am a full-cycle entrepreneur, a certified coach and a guide. The work connects you to your inner truth so you can expand your gifts and the business built on them. It does not replace clinical care.

My company is sponsoring this — how does that work?

It runs in three: you, your sponsor and me. Framing. We meet together first, to frame the mission and the objectives. The conversation. Then I meet you alone — that's where the objectives take their real shape, and where we both find out if there's chemistry. You choose the coach, not your sponsor. Validation. We return to the three of us to validate the objectives, adjusted if the framing calls for it, and if they hold, we go ahead: typically ten sessions, two hours each. Midpoint. A check-in at the halfway mark: do the objectives still hold, are the means enough, does anything need adjusting. Close. At the end of the sessions, we meet again as three. A review, a decision, and feedback from everyone involved, on the objectives, never on the person. Where it's useful, a 360° process can be built into the coaching, with tools such as the Enneagram, StrengthsFinder or the Leadership Circle.

Do you work in French?

Yes. Sessions run in English or French, whichever lets you think without translating.

Start here

A few places a year.

Write to me with one word — Ancre, Cap or Cercle — and I'll tell you when the next one opens.